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Welcome to The Manor

A Safe, Consensual Space for BDSM Exploration

"Dominance is guiding another to feel emotions unimagined, joys never before thought possible, and affection without measure. Submission is a gift earned through passion and compassion."

– Author Unknown

About The Manor

Step into The Manor, a relaxed and inclusive BDSM chat room where individuals with diverse perspectives on Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism (BDSM) come together. Embracing the principles of Safe, Sane, and Consensual (SSC) or Risk-Aware Consensual Kink (RACK), The Manor offers a safe haven for both the experienced and the curious to explore Total Power Exchange (TPE) and the BDSM lifestyle without fear of judgment.

What is BDSM?

BDSM encompasses consensual practices including Bondage and Discipline (B&D), Domination and Submission (D&S), and Sadism and Masochism (S&M). Far from non-consensual abuse, BDSM is rooted in mutual respect, trust, and consent, ensuring all interactions are safe and agreed upon by all parties.

Key terms include top, bottom, submissive, dominant, switch, and safeword. All interactions prioritize consent and mutual respect.

Room Rules

  • Minimum age: 18+. This is an adult-themed chat room.
  • No anonymous, underage, or improper usernames (e.g., dots, single letters, symbols). Violators will be asked to change or removed.
  • No impersonation or use of another user’s name/avatar.
  • Prohibited content: Images or discussions involving child pornography, bestiality, scat, or illegal activities. Violators will be banned, and authorities notified.
  • No underage roleplay or discussions. Violators will be banned, and authorities notified.
  • Avatars: No animated avatars; keep height under 400px.
  • Respect Dominants by addressing them as Sir or Ma'am unless otherwise requested.
  • No off-site advertising or room tags. Respect the Starlight Chat community.
  • No harassment, public or private. Violators will be removed and banned.
  • Respect boundaries: "No" means no. Consent is mandatory.
  • Open scenes are encouraged, but this is not a cybersex-only room. Private interactions should be taken elsewhere.
  • No quick or forced collars. Respect the significance of collaring.
  • No double names or gender switching. Violators will be removed.

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"Our lives improve only when we take chances – and the first and most difficult risk we can take is to be honest with ourselves." – Walter Anderson


All users must provide a username and password. Non-members can enter any credentials at the prompt.