Dominance is guiding another to feel emotions unimagined, joys never before thought possible and affection without measure.
Submission is a gift that must be earned through passion and compassion; it can be given, but never taken.
Helping my partner to let go completely, accepting only her very best.
The energy of the moment is everything.
To make love to her with a single caress, to feel her heart beat from across the room, to know her thoughts by looking in her eyes...
I will settle for nothing less, and neither should you.
~*author unknown*~
Inside The Manor you will find the atmosphere to be a relaxed BDSM chat room where you will encounter many people with different views on BDSM and the Total Power Exchange ( TPE ). The Manor is a safe haven for those that are open minded or curious, to enter without fear of being judged.
BDSM stands for "bondage and discipline, domination and submission, and sadism and masochism"and describes a form of human sexual behaviour involving amongst other things sexual sado-masochism in a context that is sometimes referred to as SSC (safe, sane and consensual) though others prefer Risk Aware Consensual Kink. That is to say, BDSM is not sexual abuse, which is non-consensual.
Those that are NOT involved in the BDSM lifestyle ( Vanilla - slang for things that are not "kinky" or not related to sexual Dominance and submission ) are welcome to come in and explore, we do however ask that you respect those within. While you may not agree with ones personal choices please keep it to yourself. RESPECT is a must in this room or you will be asked to leave. Remember there is a difference between curiousity and blatant insult. Choose your words carefully and be intelligent in your conversations.
We ask that you remember NOT to automatically think that any uncollared submissive are here to serve any Dominant. If you ask the submissive and they decline then please respect that. This is NOT gor, there will be NO forcing. BDSM is SSC = Safe, Sane, and Consensual, that will be upheld.
BDSM activities are described as "play" in BDSM terminology. The BDSM term is a portmanteau acronym intended to take in all of the following activities:
* "Bondage and Discipline" play (B & D)
* Domination_and_Submission and Submission play (D & S) (including "master and slave" role-playing scenarios)
* Sadomasochism (S & M)
Note that it's common to begin dominant terms with an upper case, for example: Top, Master, Dom etc'. While the atmosphere is relaxed there are rules that must be enforced due to the online nature of this venue: |
ROOM RULES
Anyone under the age of 18 is forbidden from enter. You must be 18 or older to enter as this is a adult themed chat room.
No Anonymous Names, Initial Names or Underage names will be acceptable. This includes dots, single/double letters, numbers or symbols such as $@^*. You will be asked to change and will be removed from the room if you do not comply. Anonymous names such as "anonymous, anon, guest, curious, newbie" are forbidden. Choose a proper name or your access to the room will be removed for spamming.
No impersonating/imping, using another chatter’s name/avatar.
Posting of images containing child porn, bestiality, scat, or what otherwise maybe considered illegal is not allowed and will get you booted and banned from the room and site. Authorities will be notified!
Discussions/roleplay of underage play will not be allowed. If caught your access will be removed, you will be banned from the entire site, and Authorities will be notitifed.
No Animated Avatars and keep all Avatars no bigger than 400 in height.
You are to greet Dom/Dommes as Sir or Ma'am unless other wise requested.
No off site room tags or Advertising allowed - Anything that is on this site (Starlight Chat or Chat Resort) will be allowed. Anything off site we ask you to remove your tags out of respect of us and the site and please don't advertise.
Public or Private Harassment of people is unacceptable, Violators will be removed from the room and banned.
Everyone has the right to refuse, and the right to choose their limits. No means exactly that NO
While we do encourage open scenes in the room please do remember this is not a room of just cyber sex. The Manor chat room is not a private lounging room either . We chose to leave the privately whispers in to allow ones to be able to speak privately with in limits. If your wanting alone time with your partner please take it elsewhere.
Quick or Forced collars will Not be knowledged here.
No double names or gender changing allowed. If caught doing so you will be no longer welcome here.
If someone is breaking the rules above and a mod of The Manor is currently unavailable, we give permission for you to seek out another moderator from one of the other realms to step in and take care of the problem by using the Mod Pager.
** We do ask that if any moderator does step in and do so to please copy and paste the time stamp of the problem and report it to the owner.
"Our lives improve only when we take chances- and the first and most difficult risk we can take is to be honest with ourselves."
--Walter Anderson
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